How does one succeed in life?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

I feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me. Why?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Do you ever feel like you are doing good, but would do better if people hadn’t blamed you or even bothered you? I have gotten lonely, but I always am up to something (creating my destiny).

Ask yourself:

Making more friends is a goal.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Does not procrastinate.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

What I need from you?

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Can you turn 150 pages into a 5 minute presentation before a meeting?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

What 10 things have you stopped doing in your life?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

That's it for today.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What do you think, TikTok is nothing but another porn site? Do you agree or not? Why?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.